Lower surprise, lower frustration

When someone does wrong, immediately say to yourself: ‘It seemed right to him.’

Marcus Aurelius, Meditations

A lot of frustration comes from unrealistic expectations.

People will be late. Selfish. Distracted. Clumsy with words.

Stoicism doesn’t excuse bad behavior—but it removes the shock. When you expect people to act like people, you stop taking everything personally.

Calm begins with accurate expectations.

Try this today: When someone annoys you, remind yourself: “This is human behavior.” Then respond calmly.

Stay hungry. Stay wise. Eat brekkie.

Hey, I need a minute of your time, if you’ve got it to spare.

My name is Tanner Campbell and I’m the creator behind Stoic Brekkie. I’m a public philosopher and I create free content for those who would enjoy it.

I also have paid content. In particular I have a journaling program as well as a daily coaching app. I don’t like plastering ads all over my content, but selling these things is how I make my living, so I have to talk about them occassionally.

If you wouldn’t mind letting me if you’d like more information on these programs, please do so below. If you select yes, please leave your email address in the “additional details” box on the page that follows. Thanks!

Are you interested in those sorts of things?

Login or Subscribe to participate

Did a friend forward you this email? Click here to subscribe yourself to Stoic Brekkie and receive it every weekday morning.